Now before I go any further, I like to thank everyone whose taken the time to comment on my many blog pieces, thank you very much. Now, on a few of my blog pieces on , I got comments from this woman on both "Communicate with your mate" and "Heart and mind", known only as "M"? Now what sucks about freeservers.com is, you don't get e-mail notices when someone comments on your blog or guestbook.

 Now I bring this up, cause I have the feeling that I might know M; the way she wrote out her comments look familiar, but I could be mistaken; but also, I have a lot of female friends with that first initial. So the question gets asked...

"Who are you M?"

  M must stand for "Mystery woman". I digress, but something I am thinking about, anyway I leave this bog piece as is, and i'll talk to you guys soon...

Blog by Zach

Tags: blog by zach, mystery woman, relationships, wiseassgamer

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As human beings I believe we all have a set image of what attractive to each and all of us, we all have certain someone we all long for, that certain characteristic, that certain size and shape of what we all look for in the opposite sex (or same sex, I don’t judge) Where does attraction start and where does it end? Why is it so easy for some to acquire love, but so difficult for others?

 This person must have that set image, anything else, just won’t due… But then, this other person comes around, whether you meet this person online, at work, school, or maybe you met this person going food shopping, either way, you’ve met this person - and now is a part of your life. You have a quite a bit in common, sometimes you talk on the phone for more than an hour; however this person doesn’t what so ever fit the description of what your attracted to. This person is not ugly by any means, but nowhere near super model.

 This person is just a friend... You say to convince yourself, yet why am I thinking of this person so...

Tags: attraction, love, men, relationships, self esteem, wiseassgamer, women

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 I am of Sourthern Italian desent, and do you know what many people of Southern Italian desent are? Thay are hairy, and yes I am indeed a hairy man; almost every inch of my person is covered in hair, we're talken my face, my arms, my chest, stomach, back, leggs, you name it... It something that runs in the family, my father is hairy, my brother, infact most of my male relatives. As I was growing up in the 90's into the 2000's, I noticed body getting less and less popular, hair was starting to be noticed as DISGUSTING. If you're old enough to remember, body hair was sexy during the 1960's and 1970's. Of course now, cause of magizines, and lets be honest, magizines or a womans God. Magizine told me to be repulsed by bady hair, so that means i should be repulsed by hair.

 More and more commercials advertising products to remove body hair were being shown on TV, put this goop on your chest and all that UNSIGHTLY hair will be removed; and at some point, if you have body hair, you are NASTY. Which is really unfortunate, and kinda backwards if you ask me. Why is hair only acceptable on the head, hair...

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 Most all Atheists, Agnostics, Deists and seculars of all kinds: I have noticed this trend, they have to be some of the least racist people I have ever met, if you really listen to most none believers, (well most intelligent non believers) you will notice that they fight for 3 things: equlity for all people, separtation of church and state, and for ones religion to be kept private. As a Deist I believe in those 3 things and will always fight for them.

 Racisim and bigotry are undoughtedly some of the most ugliest emotions one could have, setting 2 different people apart for some childish reasons; let be honest we're all guilty of it once or twice, I think in 90% of cases racism and bigotry do spawn from religion; just watch anybody being a bigot on TV or the web, you know that he or she is acting like that because of what was read in THE GOOD BOOK, something in the Holy Bible, or the holy Koron, one of the many passages in those books said it was okey to behave like that. Let's be real, the Ku Klux Klan is a Christian organization, who get the values...

Tags: agnostic, atheist, bigotry, black hebrew israelites, christianity, deist, jew, ku klux klan, muslim, racism, religion, secular, wiseassgamer

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 In some of my early religious bloggage, I use to refer to myself as an Agnostic, not really knowing what an Agnostic was, I've heard some definitions of Agnostisism and how the belief in a God wasn't knowable, and can't be proven by science, and thought, thats where I fit in, but even though, I still had a belief in a deity, never really wanted to count God out. Then recently I was introdused to a young man on Youtube by the name of John L. Armstrong, with his Youtube account with the same name. 

 This man who was very active in Deism, does most of his videos on the subject. Now i've heard the term Deism in the past, but never really though too much of it, I often times thought it was something closely related to Theism, in which I thought at that point, count me out... However I subscribed to John L. Armstrongs' videos, and in one of his videos, he gives his own detailed account of Deism, but also mentioned that differnet people have different variations; but what he said though me for a lupe, he said:

"Deism: The belief in God though nature and reason"

 Now after hearing that, and...

Tags: agnostic, atheist, christianity, deism, god, john l. armstrong, theism, youtube

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 Hello everyone, I like to wish everyone a happy and healthy Holiday, and may your 2009 be blessed with love and riches. I have a lot more blog post coming up in the New Year, stay tuned...

 Blog by Zach

Tags: happy hanakah, happy holidays, happy kwanza, merry christmas

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 Hello howdy do people. It does estonish me that in 2008, people still harbor prejudices and racist attitudes, but its true. And I hate to be picking on white people here, but the blog post is about you, cause apparently you all think I share your prejudices, example, I'm in a cab resently, the driver was a white dude, we struck up a conversision, we were talking about Levittown, NY, where I live and apparently he lives too, were talking and he's telling me what a great town Levittown is, and I was agreeing; but then he said to me.

"You know why its nice.... NO BLACKS"

 Very interesting to say the least, I wanted to open my mouth and tell him what a douche he was, but I wasn't going to be in the cab that much longer, so from there on in, I was just noding my head, but as i was getting to my destination, he said something that made me sick to my stomach, he said to me....

"Blacks actually liked being slaves, they were clothed, fed, and housed."

 Please, don't kill the messanger. I could quote everything he said, but I don't want you to punch your...

Tags: black, i do not share your prejudices, levittown, new york, racist, white

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 I do write a lot about religion in my blog, and for the most part sharing my Agnostic view and pointing out some of its most negitive aspects. And I do get a bit of e-mails telling me what an Athiest pig I am. After a while I just got sick defending myself; Its been mentioned many of times in previous blog posts, that I do believe there are supernatural forces out there, but still harbour a lot of questions that quiet frankly - no human could ever answer.

 What do I believe in, I believe God is the universe, God is the solar system, God is the earth, the moon and the sun. He, she, or they are right there in front of us, but its so big we can't see it. Its what I believe, but it won't ever cause me to be a bigot, judge others, condem homosexuality, embrace slavery, and treat women like second class citizens. Heck it really has no control over my life what so ever. So basically only I... Have control over my destiny.

 I don't condem Atheisim though, some of my best friends are Atheists, and for the most part - there good hard working people with jobs and families, there human beings just like you and I and DO...

Tags: agnostic, atheist, christian, i am not an atheist, religion

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Everyone, whether your male, female, black, white should know this; the most important aspect toward a successful relationship is very much communication. It will only work when communication is present. I know some people will read this and say I don’t have to communicate; and to that I say, that’s fine, it’s your life and you live it how you see fit. However, just don’t be mad if your mate starts getting clingy, and you start getting phone calls and texts asking:

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“Where have you been?”

“Are you avoiding me?”

“Are you cheating on me?”

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I’m sorry to say, if you can’t or don’t like to communicate, then you don’t belong in a relationship….. Seriously don’t go to bars, don’t put up ads on dating websites, basically just stay in your home, watch TV and eat or better yet go under a rock. In order for a relationship to work, and this mostly goes for couples that don’t live with each other but live close; you have to talk on the phone or text at least once a day, at least 5 minutes to a half hour, and see each other at least once or twice a...

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